Weddings are very exciting! All the time and planning you
put into making it the perfect day pays off when you say, “I do.” Yet, a
reception hall with hundreds of guests, a band, and seated dinner may not be your
thing. There truly is beauty in keeping things simple. Here’s why.
There is no doubt that planning a large wedding can make you
frantic at times. One of the easiest ways to keep your wedding simple is to
invite fewer guests. By hosting less
people, the cost of food and beverages will be noticeably lower, and your
budget won’t make you pull your hair out! You can hold your reception at a smaller venue
and worry a little less about the seating arrangements.
Another way to keep things simple it to minimalize the number of vendors. Shuffling from vendor to vendor to plan the perfect wedding can be fun, but also time consuming. Perhaps you can hire a photographer but eliminate the videographer; have a friend capture a video instead. Consider eliminating planning ideas that you simply can do without. The extra stress of pulling together the extras may not be worth it.
If you prefer a smaller wedding and decide to keep the perks to a minimum, your ceremony and reception can have a very sweet and intimate feel. You can keep your focus on the guests who are there to celebrate your special day, the ceremony itself, and most importantly, your husband-to-be. Leave the worry and stress to someone else and just enjoy the moment. A joyful and peaceful presence is contagious, and you set the tone. No one will remember that you opted to do without the ice sculpture but will tell stories of when you sang a song to your new husband at the reception!
Most importantly, realize that not everything will go as
planned. Any bridezilla can sweat the small stuff but going with the flow goes long
Weddings are a huge investment of time and money, but there
is one last detail to consider on your wedding day – a gift for your
husband-to-be. While a gift exchange
between you and your finance is not a necessity, it is a sweet gesture to show
how excited you are to start your life together. If you need inspiration to help you decide what
to give, here are a few suggestions.
You two have a history and a story to tell. Offer a gift
that represents your love! Is there something you enjoy doing together? Do you
have an inside joke? Is there a trip or a goal you both dream of? Find a way to
represent whatever it is you hope for or value.
For example, if you two have a dream of traveling to France, buy him a
miniature statue of the Eifel Tower and attach and photo alongside a heartfelt note.
Tell him how excited you are to make you life journey and your dreams come true
together as husband a wife.
Perhaps you just want to tell your finance how much you love
him. Find a way to share how excited you are to tie the knot and make a list of
all the traits that made you fall in love in the first place. Engrave him a plaque of promises you plan to
honor during your marriage. Consider sharing your heart in a poem and have it
framed. As long as your gift come from the heart, it will be perfect.
Commemorate the Day
Your wedding day is finally here, after all the planning and
excitement. So, celebrate! Mark your special date on a gift that will remind
him of you. If he is a golfer, buy him a new bag with your date engraved on the
side. You could even frame an engagement photo with your wedding date for his
office. This is the day you began your
life together and one that will be celebrated for years to come.
There is no need to spend a lot of money on a gift for your
fiancé. This gesture is meant to be personal and thoughtful. Let it represent
your love and congratulate one another!